Should We Support Teen Pregnancy?

A gentil perspective on teen pregnancy.

If you've followed me on social media for a while, you’ll know I often share about teen pregnancy. It’s something close to my heart, as I became a mum to my eldest daughter, Jasmine, when I was just 18.

Because I’ve been open about that part of my life, I know it can sometimes spark mixed feelings. Over the years, I’ve heard people say I’m “promoting teen pregnancy.” But I think there’s a very important difference between promoting something and supporting someone who finds themselves in that situation.

I’ve never wanted to encourage teenagers to make that choice. What I do believe in, wholeheartedly, is the importance of compassion. When a young girl discovers she’s pregnant, she deserves a safe and supportive space, one where she feels cared for, not judged.

I’ve never wanted to paint an unrealistic picture or make it sound simple. I had two children by the time I had turned 20, and there were many challenges. I became a single mum at 19, already raising a toddler, and life at that time felt very heavy. But through it all, I learned how much perspective and the decisions we make along the way can shape our journey.

For me, motherhood meant giving up certain things, but it also gave me so much purpose. I’ve chosen to be a stay-at-home mum for now, and while I know that’s a privilege, it’s also the life that feels right for me. I hope to build a career when my children are older, and I dream of traveling the world with them by my side. That’s my version of perspective, but I know everyone’s path looks different, and that’s completely okay.

To anyone who may be where I once was, I see you. I remember that fear. And I want you to know that even though it can feel impossible at times, there is so much beauty and potential ahead. Parenthood is never something anyone can fully prepare for, no matter their age, but it can also bring a kind of strength and love you never knew you had.

I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.